Like this tweet if any of my tweets have helped you or your subs. I’m really struggling with some stuff right now and want to be sure I’m actually helping people thru my content.

There are so many ways on Findom twitter to engage subs: - games (wheels, engagement groups, discord) - bait tweets (I just got coffee, who’s sending? Amazon list, etc.) - kink tweets Find a format that works for you & continue doing it Findom advice help

Something that isn’t talked about is the vulnerability a D/S relation creates, especially in person. Many subs are looking for an outlet or place to be at their most vulnerable with someone who creates a safe space for them. Treasure & respect that vulnerability ❤️

The cruelest digital thing a domme had me do was put me in chastity with a ball shocker attached and then make me put Findom twitter on the TV. Every time she saw a hot or naked woman, she’d shock or kick me. It was so cruel & creative. cuck cbt chastity

A very good thread and great advice from a domme who’s been doing it for YEARS

A D/S relationship isn’t always about kink. It’s about common threads. What movies or anime do you like & watch? It’s about chemistry & banter & vibe more than just kink activities. And when a sub finds a dom who shares their interests, they’ll do anything to keep that.

Something that gets lost in sub space is the idea of not having to think when serving. Subs do what they’re told and the domme thinks for them. That cathartic feeling of focusing on just one thing is the high that subs chase and dommes offer. It’s fun for both when achieved

It’s better to have 5 loyal long term subs than 100 sporadic subs who only send tribute. Just like it’s better to have one long term stable boyfriend or girlfriend than continuously go on dates without commitment. At some point you’re wasting someone else’s time & your own.

Question for chastity subs and dommes that give chastity sentences: What’s the longest you’ve been in chastity or you’ve sentenced a sub to chastity?

While you have your hand on your cock waiting for her to respond to your message, she has 10 other messages just like yours to respond to. Wait patiently (preferably on your knees) for her response and you might be rewarded

1 month was the most popular. Kinda fitting for Locktober is around the corner

Aftercare is so important in a D/S relationship. Once you’ve scheduled a in person session, communicate how you want to receive aftercare. Your dom should know what that is and if she doesn’t, find another domme immediately.

I’ve seen a lot of “send white boy” or “white boys are inferior” posts from dommes Just know that even though there is a fetish for humiliation, that is race play which is a big NO 🙅‍♂️ in the kink community. Instead of white, use humiliating language like “bitch boy or loser”

This obviously doesn’t exist but a sub was talking to me about a directory of dommes and what cities they are in I don’t think it’s a good idea (safety & privacy wise) but it could help subs do more IRL cashmeets and maybe even help dommes connect with each other.

I truly don’t understand the catfish/scam fetish. It’s definitely not for me but I’m also wondering what the kink is in that? Is it the idea of being ripped off? Because then just go buy useless shit instead of giving your money away for no interaction or fake interactions

IF YOU EVER WANT TO SEE YOUR CHASTITY KEY AGAIN YOULL GET ON YOUR KNEES RIGHT HERE AND KISS THE GROUND. IM GOING TO GO DANCE WITH THE GIRLS AND MAKE OUT WITH HOT GUYS WHILE YOU MAKE OUT WITH THE GROUND GET TO IT LOSER

This might be obvious but you will not get along with every sub and you will not get along with every domme. Kink aside, it’s a process. Find the ones who actually make you feel human and stick with them. It’ll lead to longer term enjoyment than the short term gratification