Getting ready for another #fataldate... #FatalDates #dating #attraction #hyperrealitly #baudrillard #fatalstrategies #fataldates

Part One of advice to young women from my first female date, theory student and independent sex worker Bella Donatelli. Don't try to control men • No leashes • No jealousy • No nudes • Keep a bit of mystery Watch the full date here: youtube.com/watch?v=KC1vYN…

"Don't think that what you see in porn is what you have to do." Strong advice to young women from independent escort Bella Donatelli. Watch the full date here: youtube.com/watch?v=KC1vYN… #belladonatelli #datingadvice

Just had a fabulous date with Ashley Frawley. Coming soon...

Fascinating to discuss being a degraded capitalistic object in a degraded capitalistic world (via a degraded, unstable internet connection) with author & sex worker @lotte_latham (her memoir, Dear Mr Andrews, is out now & is great). Coming Soon! #lottelatham #yesdaddy

A fun Douglas Lain montage from my upcoming date with Ashley Frawley, the Monroe of Sublation Media...

"I was going to be somebody & I was gonna get the F out of where I was… I wanted the freedom and the security that the rich just enjoy…" Thank you Ashley Frawley for a great, wise, raw & passionate date. Watch in full here: youtube.com/watch?v=cNmxi_… Sublation Media

"It's very capitalistic to reduce sex to orgasm… Giving pleasure gives pleasure. Having an orgasm is not the be all & all of sex. Just giving somebody else pleasure is a pleasurable experience…" Watch the full #FatalDates with Ashley Frawley here: youtube.com/watch?v=cNmxi_…

Getting ready for my next date…

Reflecting with @lotte_latham after watching our very spilt & generous date how heternormative #fataldates is. "To me: perversion & sex work are two different things, which cross in a Venn diagram," Lotte says, in a frank, challenging, messy lo-res outing. youtube.com/watch?v=RlMwxp…

"Almost everything said about marriage is actually a fiction. What is really important is that you meet & cultivate people with the same taste in art, & similar experience & interests. If you do that, you survive." Dating tips from Boris Groys. Coming soon to Sublation Media.

Montage from upcoming date with brilliant Boris Groys.

Amazing to have a Fatal Dates with Boris Groys: youtube.com/watch?v=MyAlf9… Sublation Media

Boris Groys is on the Sublation channel today! youtu.be/MyAlf9I6SRI via YouTube

Boris Groys: "Internet divided between China, Russia & America. Place of ideological wars & censorship. It's already a ruin. The internet is already collapsing, so I can look at the internet only in the mode of nostalgia…" Watch the full date: youtube.com/watch?v=MyAlf9…

One of my greatest dates. Ashley Frawley is a keeper.

Season Two incoming shortly...

Fatal Dates Season Two incoming later today

New Season! Fatal Dating Tips, from the forthcoming Sublation Media book. Tip #1: START WORSE

Are we fwb or marriage material? Having a bit of fun discussing this now: youtube.com/live/cDJUthQAN…