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normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you and your lack of importance to them regardless of what they tell you.

Unfortunately, people have a right to decline your love no matter how pure your intentions are.

I think it’s disrespectful for people to pursue others when they know they are either not ready to or unable to match their level of maturity and integrity. pretending to be someone they aren’t and wasting people’s time to prove what, exactly? this goes for friendship too tbh

stop repeating yourself. They heard you the first time. Normalize accepting ✨if they wanted to they would✨that goes for every form of relationship in your life. Romantic, platonic, and with your family🦦

Healthy relationships are still realistic and top tier if you ask me.

you picked your side, made your bed you better lay in it.

WRITE…EVERYTHING ....Down Your bills Your everyday & monthly expenses Your goals & aspirations Your business and investment plans Please write every single thing down!!!

I’m not the type of person who is receptive to tough Love AT ALL. I’ve had enough tough Love lessons to last me a lifetime. You want to reach me and get through to me?! Be calm. Be gentle. Be compassionate. Listen to me. Be understanding. And Reassure me. That’s all it takes.

if i ever lose my battle against myself, i love everyone who genuinely loves me🤍

Always be prepared for a person to switch ..

Mannnn, I don’t even bother to explain to people what they did wrong anymore. I’m leaving you where you had me fucked up at beloved😭🤣

Honestly, if you’ve noticed I’ve been distant from you. It just means you’ve done something weird to me and have yet to acknowledge your behavior. I still have love for you but I love myself more to just love you from a distance🌻

Sometimes u gotta blame yourself for what u go thru, cause u knew better…💯

ain’t none like waking up seeing that pad still crisp white meaning you’re back to yourself again lmao.

Everything and everybody around me gotta make sense. If we ain’t on the same shit it really ain’t none with you.

realest thing ever

remember this