If my future husband reading this don’t listen to him

Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a safer life exists. Let it happen.

I’m praying to God that from June to December, our lives and the lives of our loved ones will change for the better.

May this type of love chase ME , finds ME 😭

It is all about the excitement and the smile not the gift itself.

Late replies do not bother me. Most of life is not urgent. Text me when the kettle has cooled and the day stops shouting your name. I have learned the shape of waiting that is not personal. The phone sleeps face down. The little dots come and go like fish. I load the dishwasher.

I would literally CRY if someone did this for me. Like actually cry

i texted him "have fun" and he texted back "no i'm still gonna text you" and that basically sums up the kinda man i want.

Depression when you’re self aware is really a funny thing…. Because you very much acknowledge you’re depressed so therefore you make efforts to move through it or shake out of it… but sometimes it’s like fuck it…lemme be depressed I’ll be back tomorrow lol

90% of my happy marriage is us just wanting each other to be happy. J wants to watch football so I am planning snacks and a meal around him doing that. Yesterday the kids mentioned wanting the fall feeling of caramel apples. Got those too. Put his favorite sodas in the fridge so

- Flowers must be a regular thing - We must talk everyday - Check in when you’re out (“just arrived”, “on my way home” etc) - No exes that are friends - Don’t move like a single man (online & outside) - Plan dates (I hate a “we’ll see”)

I want my wife to have the softest & unproblematic life. Any issues just call me baby.

I like the hood niggas that don’t be in the hood fr .. like you can tell they got some hood in them but they work a 9-5 & obey the law 😭😭😭

why do yall think this would EVER be the work of a man??😭studs do it best boo

"we'll figure it out together" "i can make time" "I just called to hear your voice"

i highly recommend a clingy, affectionate, lovey-dovey partner. life's too short to be with someone who acts like showing love is a chore

Prayer for the day: Almighty Father, I thank you because you are the creator of the heavens and the earth, the source of my life, and giver of all good gifts. I ask Lord that you will please give me the strength &wisdom that I need to succeed & the grace to overcome struggles.

idk people treating me poorly doesn't make me question my worth it just makes me question if they're slow

this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.

The book. The Lesson.