was hanging with a guy this morning and thought, this guy is a closeted heterosexual

Male Attractiveness is something that can actually be improved. And I don't mean by looks, money, or status. We did a brief study on one guy, who increased in attractiveness by 64% over two-ish months of interim work. Check it out:

playful banter is a litmus test for relational coherence, and can only unfold when two individuals are receptive enough to volley inside unpredictability. through this, you’re able to decipher how the other person maneuvers through tension, agility, wit & intuitive pacing without

no vibes, no rizz = suck at dealing with uncertainty

willingness to be uncertain leads to curiosity curiosity leads to trial trial leads to experience experience leads to mastery mastery leads to confidence in what areas of your life have you been unwilling to be uncertain, thus unwilling to build confidence

death comes in statements, like this one. where every statement adds to a frozen wasteland of static information. like a photograph carries a still shot, or a compression of a living moment life, and the unzipping of that compression, comes in the form of questions, a logical

open the aperture and everything gets better, but opening the aperture from a negative focus is hard. it feels like slightly less negative results and not worthwhile. Doing the short term fix thing though, and shifting focus to positive perspective, is getting us better

gonna say it again. everything we do is meant to provoke a state of curiosity. it's the feeling of curiosity that does the work tho

someone posted about creepiness lately and I can't seem to find it to reply so gonna say a few things about creepiness. I'm starting with the assumption that everyone creeps. everyone tiptoes their way out the back door or into situations trying not to be seen. trying to avoid

I feel so confident after a good roast. it's like a brutally honest stylist has taken my tattered soul, ripped the ratty clothes off my body, cut mats out of my hair, scrubbed the dirt of my skin and underneath all that grime was a fabulous and handsome spirit

if you're a dude, it's super important that you feel a woman's judgment and scrutiny. relax into it. this is how she detects bullshit. Let those sharp eyes slice and dice, and you're one step closer to her feeling safe enough to sploosh on your noodle

if you're a high IQ man, high IQ women really need you. they need you to be dumb enough that you do what feels good while also being the smart ass that's interesting to talk to

can’t find it now but I think a lot about this thread where a guy said he fasted from all media for a year and suddenly became super interested in his friends and family because he wasn’t getting any of the social nutrient from media anymore

as a kid, being laughed at was associated with long periods of isolation and fear. as an adult, willingness to be laughed at is required to be part of a quality in group as a kid, angering parents meant physical pain and isolation. as an adult, willingness to anger lovers,