This is a suboptimal way of approaching life, one that by definition limits you to a path in life that is full of sucky things. Way better to ask: How do I get what I want AND stay in enjoyment in the process?

Here’s what I’ve been up to this March. My notes on beauty, creative intimacy, sexuality, and the freedom of fatherhood: writings.edmondlau.co/p/march-2025-m…

Feeling excited to bring my systems- and engineering mind back into my writing—this time, to the most intimate terrain of my life: sex. Over the past 8 years, I’ve poured hundreds of thousands of dollars into the path of transformation—coaching, trainings, retreats, plant

One of my fun new spiritual practices as a new father, surprisingly, has been singing improv rhymes to my daughter as I'm changing her diaper or putting her to sleep. It's actually a deep practice of trusting my voice, trusting play, and of trusting the mystery—where in the

Hitting nearly one year of using Kubera — and I've been really loving it as the one-stop shop for tracking wealth. It's given me access to a fast, simple, and secure bird's eye view of what's happening — and it's been the only financial tool that feels like a delight to use.