And I liked the original tweet but I should’ve known…

I’m dropping a huge truth bomb and going to sleep: For some men, losing an incredible woman is a relief—because now they can keep being mediocre without the pressure to become better.

The single most important thing a black man can contribute to the black community is staying committed to one woman and looking after his kids. This is far more consequential than any other form of activism or advocacy.

A child cussing isn’t funny.

💞 Now you outside doing downward dog 😪

A man who cooks, cleans, and washes the dishes is just a functional adult, not a special being.

Time stopped in British households

I hate when you’re trying to love someone the healthy way, but they keep triggering a version of you that you worked hard to outgrow.

incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it’s a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with

One thing I hate at this grown age is somebody who acts like cause & effect does not exist ! Yes your actions caused this outcome ! So why are you acting surprised & playing victim ?

I’m scared of people that create false narratives to escape accountability.

always judge a man by the urgency he moves with when it comes to you

Gaslighting is when they repeatedly cause u to feel crazy & confused. They play the victim by blaming YOU when u address their toxic behavior. They avoid taking responsibility by lying, denying, & making u question your feelings, sanity, & facts. It's manipulation …

i will apologize when i’m wrong and own it. but i don't apologize when i'm provoked. you lit the match. now deal with the fire

Some people won't grow because they can't hear the truth without getting offended. They can't see the part they played, only the discomfort they feel when their behavior is reflected back to them. If someone can't sit with the truth of their actions, they won't be able to change

A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim...

You cannot repair a relationship with someone who insists the real problem is always your reaction, never their behavior. They focus on how you spoke, how loud you got, or how emotional you became, while completely ignoring the disrespect, neglect, or hurtful actions that caused

I don’t think people really understand that there is no coming back from certain things. Some damage does not get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that’s it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.