if your first reaction to an actress saying she headcanons the character she plays on a TV show as aroace is to insult her, then you are just an asshole tbh

why are allos always so weird about aro/ace characters?(canon or not)

would love to know why the mere possibility of a character being asexual bothers people this much

these people always seem to forget that AI models were trained on fic, like millions of fics on ao3 actually got scraped to train AI! sentences and framing sounds familiar because it’s TRAINED ON FIC

i really don’t like that they’re showing fanart, especially suggestive and nsfw, to the actors of the show. like sorryyyy keep it separated

The r slur being renormalized by so many people and not being seen as a major issues is so fucking crazy

I don’t really love the way the conversation about men embracing femininity is being worded lately

a lot of people think of platonic love as inherently inferior to romantic love and i genuinely think that is a big issue

this type of "headcanoning" makes my skin crawl- this isn't inclusion or representation, it's blatant fetishization

Being trans is everyone reducing you to your body parts, ally and bigot alike

i don’t like how common it is for people to hc characters as trans solely for nsfw and nothing else

everyone who is not in the ace spectrum needs to shut up about asexuality and the labels under them

it’s always “this is just everyone” until they date someone ace and get upset when the partner doesn’t ever feel attraction to them. it’s allllwayyysss that shit. aroace in concept is drastically different than in reality when it comes to allos understanding it

people only like asexual hc that are digestible, characters who are less popular and not shipped with anyone, if you dare hc a popular character as asexual suddenly everyone cares about realism

Yes heartstopper is cringe. It SHOULD be cringe. Being a teenager struggling with your sexuality feels cringe and awkward. I connected with it so much back then because I related. I felt like I wasn't the only one. I hate to seeing negativity about it because it helped me so much

I think it’s in very poor taste to keep referring to dick as a cheater or anything else victim blamey when he’s also a victim of that very non consensual kiss in the new titans issue, I know you want to defend babs and kory but I do not think that’s the way to go about it

Shipping is a way to analyze a character and some characters are rarely analyzed outside of shipping are two things that can be true at the same time