Might’ve been the villain.. but I was right

i'm officially in my quiet era. whatever happens, happens. i don’t have much to say about anything anymore. it is what it is & life goes on.

Make sure you love you.

My therapist once said 'People don't abandon the people they love, they abandon the people they are using' and that was all the closure I needed.

Work on things nobody can take away from you:

Your skills
Your body
Your mindset
Your character
Your knowledge

This is how real wealth looks like.

Treat disrespect immediately or expect the disrespect to get worse.

If you’re not in my life anymore, it doesn’t mean that I think you’re a bad person. I don’t deem people good or bad. I deem people to be safe or unsafe. Aligned or misaligned. Because I’m not available for people I have to protect myself from.

I feel like there’s a thin line between giving somebody grace & simply letting them play in your face

I think I’m very self-aware so it’s natural for me to examine where I could have also been the problem but sometimes I’m fucking not. Sometimes, people are crazy or full of shit & I’m not buggin at all.

People talk about how great it is to end a toxic relationship. But no one talks about the hardest relationship after ending a toxic one is your relationship with yourself because you have to heal and be honest with yourself about how much you participated in your own suffering.

The highest level you can reach in one lifetime is to be completely yourself, and to know what that means.

There’s a difference between someone who wants to be in your life to enhance it and experience it with you, and someone who only wants to be in your life so that you can enhance theirs. People who only want to attach themselves to you for benefit are energy vampires and leeches.

run it back I got my own money.

adopting a 'do it right now' mentality has done wonders for my organization & discipline.
something on the floor? grab it right now. thinking about cooking later? cook right now.
laundry finished? put them up right now. home from a trip? unpack right then. It's the small…

Unhealed trauma makes you tolerate sh*t you don't deserve and hold onto people you shouldn't because you don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve access to your life – no matter how much you love them.

You did not spend all that time building an empire of peace within you, just to let someone in who will only ever tear that down. A huge part of honoring your spiritual path is saying no to the chaos monsters.

I ain’t never switched up on nobody. Either u pushed me away, left me hanging,or showed me it’s no loyalty in u💯

life has taught me that anybody can change suddenly, doesn’t matter how close the bond is.

Toxic people reject you when they can no longer manipulate you.

She is KILLING IT! And not killing it for her age! Just KILLING IT! Eating these young girls UP! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾❤️