People will assume you’ve never been through anything because you do not have a victim personality and your trauma is not your entire personality. We grow from tribulations over here, not pity ourselves.

Imagine expecting Halle Berry to cook and clean! Onye iberibe!

I have a good one; There are no cheat codes

The amount of people who want a village but don’t want to be a villager is quite fascinating to me. You want people to show up for you but you don’t want to show up for anyone because you think you’re special mschwwwwwwwwww

Everybody is always wanting to wait until they have a romantic partner to do things with and I just want yall to consider friends, siblings, people in a local group with same interests.

Stop cheating on your future with your past. It's over.

I hope you people know not all Nigerian musicians sing afrobeats? Because of inferiority complex you people are letting foreigners who don’t know it is a genre of music, define every Nigerian artist as “Afrobeats”. It’s not a big deal if they don’t know but it is that we don’t

I can’t stand people who talk slowly on TikTok, it really irks me

Everyone talks about being compassionate to people going through mental health issues but nobody talks about the people in their lives who get traumatized from their behavior. I feel like horrible people weaponize their so called mental health crisis.

Stop looking for opinions from other people and take your own advice for a change. The advice you eagerly give to others, start applying it to yourself and see what happens. You’ve had the answers to your questions all along.

If you don’t form a very strong & balanced opinion of yourself. You would internalize everyone’s perception of you. If you catch yourself getting triggered by random stories pp tell that isn’t directed at you. This is a sign for you to work on yourself.

I’ve learnt a lot from listening to TikTok story time and nobody asked but I would like to share some of them. 1) We need to bring back keeping secrets! Every eka market day a ✋🏻 person comes on that platform to tell us about their poor hygiene. It’s disgusting I know.

A 29 yr old lady gets married and you people are offended that she took her husband’s name. A practice that has going on for at least 80 yrs in Nigeria. Projecting your beliefs on others has to be some kind of mental illness

Happy 71st birthday to Ruby Bridges! In 1960, she became the first Black American to attend a white elementary school in the South. A visual reminder of what she faced every day. —In 1960, Ruby Bridges became the first Black American to attend a white elementary school in the

I have learnt a lot about trans maxxing this week and I learnt it all against my will.

If this happened to me, you won’t get it out of me at 🔫 point.

Narcissists don’t just misremember—they reconstruct reality to suit their ego and narrative. It’s not about truth; it’s about control. If the real version of events makes them look bad, vulnerable, or wrong, they’ll edit the memory—intentionally or subconsciously—until it

Black don’t crack fr fr!

People are legit getting stuff of people who will be raptured tomorrow. God I see what you are doing for others

Fortunately, they were right. When you surround yourself with high achieving individuals, you have no option but to catch up.