#20twentysex - Q#2 of 20: Ask your spouse what their hopes and dreams are for the future of your intimacy together. To do this well, you need to agree to hold back discussion of current limitations and challenges and paint the picture together of what could be.

#20twentysex - Here's #3 of 20 convos to have w/ your spouse about sex: Ask your spouse what their thoughts are regarding planned versus spontaneous sex in marriage. The truth is couples do well to have both in their sexual experience together. What changes could u make here?

#20twentysex - Here's #4 out of 20 daily conversations to have with your spouse about sex: Ask each other what the 2 or 3 best sexual times you've ever had together are, and discuss why that might have been? A lot of this you'll agree on, but some answers might surprise you.

#20twentysex - Here's #5 of 20 conversations to have with your spouse re sex: Ask, in your lives right now, what hinders your sex life & what helps it along? There are always things that detract and things that support intimacy together. What are some of yours?

#20twentysex - Here's #6 out of 20 conversations to have with your spouse about sex: What would you guess the duration is of your average love making session? Is shorter or longer appealing to either of you in any way? In what ways / contexts / situations?

#20twentysex - Here's #7 out of 20 conversations to have with your spouse about sex: Take turns asking each other, when it comes to our intimacy together, what is one thing I could change for you that would be significant for you?

#20twentysex - Here's #8 of 20 convos to have w/ your spouse re sex: Ask, what have you learned re yourself in the last year when it comes to your sexuality? We grow and change in life, & our intimacy needs, desires change too. Bring your understanding of each other up to date

#20twentysex - Here's #9 of 20 conversations to have with your spouse about sex. See pinned post on our FB Page for more: facebook.com/couplethings Remember, new conversations will connect you, refresh your understandings of each other, and generate new ideas and directions - and

#20twentysex - Here's #10 of 20 conversations to have with your spouse about sex. Remember, new conversations will connect you, refresh your understandings of each other, and generate new ideas and directions - and all these are great ingredients for your intimacy together.

#20twentysex - Here's #11 of 20 conversations to have with your spouse about sex: Talk about your times of intimacy together in relation to what times of day, month, year work best. Life has rhythms to it and also things shift and change depending on life's circumstances. Discuss

#20twentysex Here's #12 of 20 convos re sex to have w/ ur spouse: Sex'l fulfillment is for both of you equally, but planning a time just for one of you is a treat. So, if a dream evening was planned for just you, what kind of things would you like it to include?

#20twentysex Here's #13 of 20 convos re sex to have with your spouse: In a day, when it comes to your spouse, what actions do they do, or what features do they have, that turn you on the most? The answers here might surprise you because assumptions abound in this department!

#20twentysex - Here's #14 of 20 convos re sex to have w/ ur spouse: It's usually true that your sex life together is an indicator of how things are going more broadly between the two of you. If that's the case, what does your sex life say about your married life these days?

#20twentysex - Here is #16 of 20 conversations about sex to have with your spouse: The Bible says that "married sex is like a ship that is carried along by the sea" Prov. 30:18-19. What do you think this means? And how do you feel it's been true for you?

#20twentysex - Here is #17 of 20 convos re sex to have with your spouse: We often think of intimacy in marriage as something that should spontaneously happe and keep getting better, but we need good, wise input into this area to grow. What kind of resource would work for you?

#20twentysex - We are almost done the full list of 20 conversations for couples to have about their sex lives and n marriage! #18: What are your fears regarding your sex life and intimacy together? This is a deep share. Be curious, not defensive!

#19 (of 20!) conversations to have about sex in marriage: If great sex requires physical ability and emotional closeness, who can have the better experience - A younger couple or an older one? Have a conversation about this. What can you aspire to as a couple? #20twentysex

And now #20 of 20 conversations to have with your spouse about sex: In looking back over the last 20 conversations (hopefully you made a few happen?!) what did you find most interesting, what did you learn about your partner, and what can you apply to your intimacy together?

In honor of Valentine's Day. Haha I think we have come quite far Brian Bilston - Nice work, this is fantastic!