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Anna Chandy

@counselloranna

Transactional Analyst | Counselor | learner l Author | Eternal Optimist | Chairperson -The Live Love Laugh Foundation l Philanthropist in Mental Health

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Why do some breakups hit harder? Context: bond intensity, length, sudden ending, betrayal, rejection. Timelines aren’t comparable—your nervous system is processing its own mix. Which 2 factors hurt most? Pair each with support: friend check-in, therapy, routines. #BreakupRecovery

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Grief isn’t linear—it loops. You might move between denial/shock, anger, bargaining, sadness, acceptance—sometimes two at once. Name today’s state + choose one support: sleep window, nourishing meal, short walk, 10-min call. Sources: Cleveland Clinic, Mayo Clinic. #Grief #Healing

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Sudha’s journey: childhood sexual abuse, family ostracism, years of shame—then therapy helped her reclaim her identity. Today she supports clients navigating Indian family systems, relationships, anxiety, depression & addiction. #TherapyInIndia #MentalHealthIndia #TraumaHealing

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“Did I do the right thing?” Mixed feelings + replay loops are common. Grieving Series — Stage 1/7: Ambivalence Try: name feelings without judgment, do a 15-min pro–con, or a small ritual (letter you won’t send). Revisit in 72 hrs. Source: Cleveland Clinic. #Grief #BreakupRecovery

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Numbness can look like control: avoiding feelings, “closure” contact, acting like nothing changed. Shock protects short-term—but staying in it can stall adjustment. Try gentle reality testing: tell 2 people, simplify plans, consider 2 weeks no-contact. 📵 #Grief #Healing

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Vineeta found therapy during a hard phase—once a “classic rescuer” & people-pleaser. Therapy helped her find her authentic voice. Now she works with individuals, families & groups with compassion+perseverance. 30 yrs supporting youth; lived across cultures. #Therapy

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The one who holds the family together. The one who never drops the ball at work. The one everyone depends on. But what happens when the role becomes the identity? This experiential workshop is an invitation to pause & explore who you are beyond labels. Join me. #MentalHealthIndia

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Varna’s journey to therapy wasn’t linear—she explored many interests but felt stuck and without purpose. Finding the right therapist changed her life, helping her build empathy (especially for herself). Today she equips people with tools to manage stress & anxiety. #Therapy

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Anger is a signal—it points to violated needs + boundaries. (Grieving Series: Stage 3/7) Watch for traps: blaming, doom-scrolling, venting that turns into attacking. Try one outlet today: 20-min brisk walk 🚶‍♀️ / 10-min journal ⏲️ / “say-it-once” boundary note ✍️ #Grief #Boundaries

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Bargaining sounds like: “What if I had…?” “Maybe if I change…” It can idealise what wasn’t safe—and tempt you to trade your values for contact. Pause the loop: reality-check with a friend/therapist + write 3 non-negotiables. Set as lock-screen 2 weeks. 📱 #Grief #SelfRespect

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Arvind found therapy during a crisis in his 20s—and it shaped his belief: let your authentic self shine. Now a Counselling Psychologist (MA Clinical Psych), 6+ yrs experience, he blends evidence-based approaches to fit each client. #MentalHealthIndia

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Grief Stage 5/7: when “gravity” sets in—heavy sadness, withdrawal, low energy, sleep/appetite changes. Gentle care helps: simple routines + grounding + safe people. If hopelessness or safety concerns appear, seek professional help. 📆 #Grief #Recovery

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Signs: clearer view of what was/wasn’t possible, fewer emotional spikes, steadier routines, openness to new chapters. Try this: write a 3-line reframe that honors the past + names 1 strength you’ll carry forward. Read it aloud daily this week. 🗣️ #Grief #Acceptance #Healing

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13 Associates. 11 years. Many narratives. Many discoveries. Many transformations. One place - Anna Chandy & Associates. #Therapy #MentalHealthIndia #CounsellingIndia #BangaloreTherapist

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Stage 7/7: Moving on doesn’t erase meaning—it builds from it. Signs: self-esteem returning, reconnecting with friends, curiosity for new interests. Growth isn’t rushed. Pick 1 growth action + schedule it today. ⏰ #Grief #Healing

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New weekly series: Ask Us Anything 💬 This week’s question: “If my 21-year-old starts therapy now, will she need it forever?” We’re answering in today’s reel. DM your questions on therapy, boundaries, relationships, healing & mental health. #TherapyTalk #AskUsAnything

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Your anxiety right now? That’s not an overreaction. When there’s constant uncertainty, crisis & bad news, the nervous system can go straight into fear and mode. Come back to the present. Focus on what’s in your control: your breath, your routine, your screen time. #MentalHealth

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Have you heard of Good Girl Conditioning? Kavita breaks down what it means, how it affects women through guilt, people-pleasing, and boundary issues, and what it can take to break free. #GoodGirlConditioning #WomensMentalHealth #PeoplePleasing #Boundaries #MentalHealthIndia

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High function distress often doesn’t look like distress at all. It can hide behind productivity, achievement, and high performance — while quietly affecting your mental well-being. #HighFunctionDistress #MentalHealth #Burnout #HighFunctioningAnxiety #MentalHealthIndia #AnnaChandy

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High function distress often doesn’t look like distress at all. It can hide behind productivity and high performance while quietly affecting your mental well-being. #HighFunctionDistress #MentalHealth #Burnout #HighFunctioningAnxiety #MentalHealthIndia #AnnaChandy