I will never stop preaching this. There is something called the vulnerability of lack. Let the men from poor backgrounds marry the women from poor backgrounds but if you were not raised in such an environment, find a woman whose family is on your family's level and marry.

Overtime, i understand why rich families marry amongst themselves. There's something wrong with the mentality of poor humans

People who eventually become rich, regardless of where they started, often possessed a certain orientation toward life long before the money arrived. There is usually a psychological disposition beneath material success, and refusal to fully identify with limitation even while

Ugo reported that the ex-wife falsely accused him of domestic violence which was disproved by the authorities as a lie- yet everyone just casually looked away. Such serious sensitive heinous false accusations against the man yet nobody seemed to see any big deal in it. Did you

Sometimes men pull back or gives low effort because he feels that his effort is not being reciprocated. He initiates. He checks in. He plans. A lot of women approach dating from a place of self protection. "You, as a man, have to prove to me that you are worthy of my time, my

Game theory explains why people become defensive when you improve yourself visibly. Your growth changes the comparison environment around them. It removes comforting assumptions about what is possible with discipline. Many criticisms directed at ambitious people are actually

And this is why I say if a woman leaves you because you cheated, she did not leave you because you cheated. But that is the socially approved, scruple-free excuse she will give to justify her exit. She left because she had already been considering leaving and your

A dangerous man carries no grudges. He carries lessons, standards, and the patience to let time settle everything.

By definition, a 'side dude' can only exist when you have already started cheating on your husband. If you have not slept with him yet, he is not a side dude. Words have meanings. But let me improve your question so that it is answerable: "Instead of remaining with your

it is an unwritten rule of life that after every prolonged period of hardship and uncertainty, there is going to be a period when you are going to achieve quantum leaps across multiple areas of your life. the only requirement is that you do not give up on yourself

A man in scarcity does not simply lack money, women, status, or opportunity. Scarcity is the spiritual posture of clinging. He clings to being chosen, being understood, being forgiven, being included. Abundance begins when he stops treating access to other people as proof he

This is it. Everything learned spending millions on longevity. From: Your Immortal Unc and Auntie. To: Our Immortal nieces and nephews. 0. Sleep is the world's most powerful drug. 1. Be in your bed for 8 hours 2. Same bedtime every night, any time before

Until people are honest with themselves about the options they actually have, most will remain single. A large percent of men are either financially unstable, emotionally immature, incarcerated, homosexual, already married or simply don’t want commitment/families. Then many

Women love to say “I don’t owe him sex.” Correct. And he doesn’t owe you marriage. He doesn’t owe you loyalty while you turn him into a roommate. He doesn’t owe you unlimited wifey benefits while you publicly shame him and privately deprive him. Marriage is created as a

The other day, I was having a conversation with my partner and she asked me what I would do if she cheated. I told her, nothing. I would not fight, nor would I shout. I would simply live in the understanding that she had acted out a possibility I had always known existed. To

A loser does not become a loser in one decision. He becomes one by protecting the emotional rewards of losing. Sympathy, excuses, lowered expectations, avoidance of pressure, moral superiority over people who try harder. Failure becomes comfortable when it starts paying you in

Secret tip: If you want someone to take your advice seriously, never give it directly. Ask them what they would tell a friend in the very same situation. It forces them to arrive at your conclusions themselves. This works well because the brain habitually scrutinizes its own