Yep. Basically "talk to her like a human being". The fact that it doesn't matter what you say is key. She will make a decision based on who you are, and it's not something you can hide. If you are nervous and insecure, and she has any social skills, she will pick up on that.

"Those who would give up essential Dignity, to purchase a little temporary Punani, will end up with neither Dignity nor Punani." (Franklin, paraphrased)

If you are in your 20s and you feel a desperate need to help others... stop. You have little to offer, and the person who needs help most is yourself.

Being 'widowed' is likely the best thing that can happen to a man. He confronts reality, grieves, grows, starts focusing on what matters, and becomes better able to choose reliable lifelong partners. By contrast, we know that being 'widowed' only harms a woman's future.

🇬🇧 IM 🇬🇧 @WTFUdad As much as we hate it to be true, the lower, more primal traits dwarf the higher ones, such as integrity, morality, etc, when it comes to raw attraction. In as much as those 'higher' traits result in an inhibition of the 'lower' ones, they become functionally unattractive.

French OG My take on this is that women are so confusing to men because they tend to have a set of opposing internal drives that they are generally unconscious of and bounce between. If they get too close to fulfilling one drive at the expense of another (for example sleeping with the

The ones calling this writing 'slop' are the same ones - spiritual speaking - who told Mozart his pieces had 'too many notes'.

More interviews with "horrible men from the internet" coming up!

Cernovich Chess skills have almost no overlap with real life. If anything, using a mental model where actions are discrete, outcomes are clear and predictable, and moves can be calculated into the future actually makes you less functional in the real world. That only works on tv.

Very few people who have the traits to be great life coaches actually do coaching. Thankfully, there are exceptions. Content aside, checkout my conversation with Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul 🏴‍☠️ to see what a well developed man who combines experience, intelligence, wisdom, strength, and moral

Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul 🏴‍☠️ My take on it is that the reason a lot of women don't want to have sex is because they are emotionally disconnected from their husbands, and are holding on to resentment for unaddressed issues. In other words, they don't currently like him. While that may be a good reason to

If you are a guy who is willing to do anything to make a relationship work, this one is for you.

Giff Lasta There's nothing perfect about being pressured into doing something intimate that you don't want to do. This might seem like heaven to a guy who doesn't get enough female attention, like most, but there is also such a thing as too much.

French OG Another way of putting it is that the built-in human valuation matrix has significantly different weights than we 'think' it should. #1's value is 'objective' only in that we can more easily measure it, and it is socially acceptable and common to do so. #2's value is, if

Authentic 'hard-boiled' private eye - must watch.

Justin Garson Jazmine Russell I try to tell people who say they 'have' ADHD the same thing, and they hate to hear it because they are so entrenched labeling themselves and externalizing the issue. "I *have* this" v.s. "I *am* like this because..." My go-to analogy is that it's like having a headache. The

After working on my own shit for 20+ years, this is really it. #2 is very important, esp for prideful dudes, who think bottling up emotion is a strength when it is really a fear-based avoidance. Suppressing, numbing, or intellectualizing, just doesn't work.

Not yet having anything is a great filter, too, because it allows you to find women that like you - your spirit, your ambition, your soul - not just what you have. I could be wrong, but my experience is that the women that like stuff don't know how to like people.

If you are a serious guy, anything you do to get or maintain a relationship needs to be framed by the "old and sick" question: Am I going to be willing (or able) to play whatever game this woman requires for the rest of my life? What about when I am old and sick?

Rebecca V. Proud American 🇺🇸 Labor for your own benefit and labor for someone else, while both are often called 'work', are not the same thing. Building a house for yourself is 'work' in the sense that it's labor, but it's not a job for someone, so no one pays you. Raising *your* kids is...for someone