Sometimes, it's not that you need anger management, but that the people around you are toxic af. In such cases, your anger might be the most honest part of you, telling you that you deserve to be around healthier people.

Yes I am

I don't think people realize how peaceful it is to come home, tidy up your space, cook a good meal, take a shower, and just focus on your own life.

Ain’t nothing like having your OWN person!! if I’m having a bad day I ain’t got time to explain to 5 mfs what happened…I’m tryna call my baby ASAP😂

if we date, just know i’ll never stop touching you. i’ll play with your hair, your hands, scratch your back, rub your shoulders, your neck, grab your jaw, sit in your lap, hug you, kiss you, everything. all the time. affection is my favorite and I just like to touch you

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My therapist told me, “When a woman grows up feeling unseen, she learns to love by overgiving. She pours into everyone else, hoping that one day someone will finally pour back into her. She becomes the caretaker, the fixer, the one who shows up even when no one shows up for her.

If I’m having a tough conversation with you, it’s because I want you in my life and want you to tighten up so I can keep you in it. I’m not attacking you.

“But you survived” I disassociate, like a lot. My heart drops when someone raises their voice. I shut down very easily. I'm far too observant. I always feel like a burden. I isolate often. But yeah, sure, I guess I survived.

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Just because you understand someone's behavior, or why they are the way that they are, does not mean you have to put up with it. No amount of empathy or understanding should ever come before your wellness, especially if their behavior hurts you or makes you uncomfortable.