come join me on the other side

a poem is an invitation to be (once again) (actually) alive

reality isn't even real. reject reality. create new wor(l)ds. fuck it. be free.

A memorable new track from Los Angeles-based band Softer, “Beachball” is a resonating, soaring rocker with a perseverant thematic pull. obscuresound.com/2025/03/softer…

thank you for this great write-up on my band’s new single, Obscure Sound / listen to the track here: open.spotify.com/track/2Eewm43K…

my band softer’s LP “fun ways to cope” comes out in august. our album release show is on saturday, august 30th, at non plus ultra, presented by hypnotique (sway fest promoter). GET TIX HERE: eventbrite.com/e/softer-lp-re…

my band softer’s NEW & final single, “cry, laugh,” from our forthcoming LP, is now out on streaming! 🖤 LISTEN HERE: open.spotify.com/track/5lgfHDfC…

our DEBUT LP, “fun ways to cope,” is out! listen on all streaming. this album has been a true labor of love, chronicling moments of pain and healing, and everything in between. play here: open.spotify.com/album/3Dy4CV7j… get your tickets to our saturday show: eventbrite.com/e/softer-lp-re…

best album release show ever 🖤

we are obsessed with this dreamy, lofi super 8 video that captures our album release show! thank you to david romanski for filming and to everyone who came out to celebrate with us! WATCH THE FULL VIDEO HERE: m.youtube.com/watch?v=yrMnCN…

happy halloween ~ reppin’ lana del rey and her gator hubby 👰🏻🐊

first bushwickian zillenial political wife in this country’s history

“that’s why they call me lanita”

How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our life. —Annie Dillard Well, every day is all there is. —Joan Didion

a bangin’ time ~ appreciated the unexpected mosh pit

pondering my next substack essay