Every wondered why it is hard to advocate in pregnancy & labour? It is because the Love Hormone - 𝗢𝘅𝘆𝘁𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗻 - that produces contractions is also 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗛𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗜𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘...

The fact that T&T has such a massive customer service problem is the perfect excuse for people to smile with you & mask that they are not really seeking your best interest ...but hey, that's okay! At least they were nice to you! #NotAllSkinTeethIsAGrin

I must be mad...in trying to get correct info out to our Mamas to be I joined Twitter, nice! But now I've gone an' joined Tik Tok 🙈 I know what God want me to do, but I hope to keep my sanity through it 🤣🤣🤣

Let's talk about the cervix;- It is accepted that in labour your cervix will dilate to 10cm. New knowledge tells us that, fully dilated is really 10 to 12cm. Reality is, you cervix really only needed to dilate too the size of your baby's head! #birthfacts

If you or your partner are on the tall side/stockier build then of found your baby is going to be "bigger" than a couple who are shorter/smaller frame. Yet they will all be judged on the same info imputed on the ultrasound machine. So don't panic 😊

I think when we say to prepare for a "Positive Birth Experience" ppl think we mean a natural birth, but that's not it. We mean a birth where you felt listened too, like you mattered & you feeling like a victor not a victim. #momsmatter #birthinTT

Types of Trinidadian Roti: • Paratha/ Buss up shut • Sada • Dhalpuri • Dosti • Channapuri • Aloo • Pepper • Naan (plain, butter, garlic, peshwari) Not a type of Roti: • Skin

You see of we focus you only on #pain and make you afraid then chances are you'll not question the care that you are receiving & that it is that might be is intensifying the suffering not the natural #birth process itself 🤷🏻‍♀️ Fear perpetuates Pain...

The modern narrative of #Birth is that your body is out to hurt you. What if I told you that your body has a plan to help you BUT you need to cooperate with it! Do your Lamaze Class! Stop doubting yourself & START EMPOWERING YOURSELF!! #HelloBabyLamaze

I don't mean to alarm anybody but...My sister just told me that Christmas is NEXT WEEK SATURDAY!🤯 Now I'm sitting here shocked to my very core...We have about 3 more weeks right?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

When & why in T&T did we normalize women being left terrified, disempowered & having their autonomy over their bodies taken away in the name of "having a healthy baby"? #momsmattertoo #yourbirthexperiencematters #givingbirthinTandT

Just saying what many of my new moms think 😁 The #newmom vs #trinipeople m.tiktok.com/v/704349449378…

2022...Please be kind to us...

Yeah, so Oreos are okay but Chunky Chips Ahoy are where it is at! 🍪 (Yes, I had cookies for breakfast & no I ent even shame 😁) #cookiesarelife #screwthenewyearsdiet #fluffyandproud

If your Midwife/Doctor/Birth Work won't let you stick your fingers into one of their orifices without consent then why are you letting them do it to you? #consent #birthviolence #yourbodybelongstoyou #Isaidwhatisaid

Here's the thing #nobody tells you about #marriage:- Yeah, okay you promise to share your life with them blah, blah, kiss, kiss...fine I can do that! But having to share my #snacks with them as well? Like, for the REST OF OUR LIVES?!? Dude, SERIOUSLY 😲😳😨

When a Mom tells you she is tired/overwhelmed/not coping, instead of telling how to cope or this will pass or some other platitude that makes you feel better in the name of support, how about you actually DO SOMETHING TO HELP HER! She doesn't need empty words she needs help.

Your #birth seems scary now because it is unknown not because you are incapable

We need to stop idolizing breasts and idealizing #BREASTMILK #breastfeeding looks different for everyone. Just because the baby is not "on the breast" does not diminish the value of Breastmilk or the mother who gives it

While I would never condone the diminishing of the value of #breastmilk, I will equally not condone the diminishing of a mother by how she chooses to safely feed her baby #happymotherhappybaby #nojudgement