As a man, If your key purpose for wanting to marry a wife, is to see if you can be financially dependent on her, as much as she would want to be financially dependent on you. You're not going to be a good husband. A good husband relies on his wife financially. End.

If you rely on your wife, you would see her financial support as a debt. If you depend on your wife, you would see her financial support as an entitlement. The former fosters peace. The latter creates friction & imbalance. End.

Your wife tells you... My husband, the school fees of Ifeanyi is due. Please we need to pay it. "Must I pay it? Are you not also working & making money? What are you even doing with your money?" You're a foolish and entitled husband. End.

When a man is making all the money, & providing for his wife & kids. "I am the head of this home. I can do whatever I like. You have no right to question me." When the wife is the one making more money... "We are one & equal. If I can't provide, can't you provide?" End.

If you marry more than one wife, and you decide to live with them under the same roof. Two things are most likely to happen. If they don't gang up against themselves, they'll gang up against you. And you may not live long. End.

I have a very strong belief, but you don't have to agree with me. If you work hard as a man to take good care of your wife, provide for her for the most part, & treat her with kindness. You'll most always succeed in whatever you do. But if she's a bad wife to you, despite

Some marriages would experience serious friction by the time the kids start entering high school. And it would be because of lack of finances. It may result to infidelity on the side of the wife. Even if she's making money. If the husband isn't doing enough... End.

I'm an African man, & this is how I see marriage. And you don't have to agree with me. Husband earns N500k. Wife earns N1m. The home earns N500k. But the man & his kids have temporary supoort, in case he needs help. And permanent back up, in case he dies. End.

If you allow your husband move into your house, you're enabling him. If you decide to pay the rent, you're enabling him. If you decide to pay the school fees of your children, you're enabling him. He would "praise" you, enjoy your money, & still low-key resent you. End.

Dear men, Please know this, and know it forever. Provision doesn't kill a man. It's his inability to provide that will kill him faster. You'll not live longer, if your wife is the main provider. You'll live shorter. Your insecurities will make you feel depressed. The

WOMEN DO NOT LOVE MEN. Love is leadership, provison & sacrifice of one's happiness & needs. When a man is the sole provider of his family, that marriage will last. When a woman is the sole provider of her family, that marriage will not LAST, or will have great crack. End.

If you're financially comfortable before you marry a wife, you're most likely going to marry the wrong wife. Unless the wife that you marry, knew you from day nothing. End.

If you're a man and above 28. You're earning above N400k per month. You live in your own little apartment. You have a serious relationship & you're convinced that you want her to be your wife. She's above 25, & earning at least half of that. Go and marry her. End.

You're free to disagree. Most women who do BBL are doing it because they want to prostitute their bodies at a higher price. End.

Some of you single women that are supposed to be married by now, do not know that the main reason why you're single is because of your mother's behavior. It's just that those men will not tell you. They'll just quietly walk away & let you be for the next unfortunate man. End.

You're not borrowing your biological children money by raising them. Stop seeing it as a debt that they have to pay you back. It's your duty and obligation as their parents. If you are not willing to see it this way, please enjoy your money alone and forget giving birth. End.

If your wife cannot buy as little as salt without waiting for you, then you're in big trouble in your marriage. Even if she's not working. No wife should go to the market with 10k that you gave her, & she comes back without change. Even if the 10k is not enough. End.

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