and let me tell you something — it will never work. the mismatch will also show up in emotional intelligence, maturity, and vulnerability.

My next relationship will be my husband. If I can’t envision it, I won’t waste any of our time lol.

The day you will toy with a stalker's emotions, you will understand there's nothing cute about poor emotional discipline. You should be scared of people who can't take an L with grace. You should be scared about people who do not care for their personal dignity.

Because it's never about them liking you too much. It's always a case of poor self esteem, entitlement, and lack of restraint. And when those things are combined, they can expose you to unimaginable harm.

Brains, beauty & boundaries.

Ayeeeeeee

I don't rate any human being to crash out badly like this. Pride >>>>

Tay Iwar 🥹❤️🤌

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I don't know, after a certain age, you should not be writing or sending paragraphs. It shows no emotional growth.

Olamide and TI ke??? That was not in my bingo cards at all.

This is a good question. It is a balancing act. An art. Swing to the extreme, you risk being narcissistic, and on the lower end, you risk being trampled on. If in doubt, it's better to be conflated for a narcissistic person sha.

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I think people misunderstand the concept of vulnerability in love. You cannot hurl your essence against a figure fashioned of steel and expect warmth to bloom. Vulnerability requires a recipient, someone willing to lay down their own shield, otherwise it withers before it flies.

You could write a thousand verses in crimson ink and inscribe vows upon the grains of the desert, scattering them until the horizon is full of your plea. And still, the immovable heart remains fixed in its refusal, immune to the storm of your expression.

Love should be offered with discernment. One must know where to spill the water of their tenderness, and where to keep the vessel sealed. True vulnerability flourishes when placed in the hands of one who understands its fragility.

There's nothing that scares me more than looking like an idiot whilst loving someone. Lmao, emotions associated with love can be embarrassing 😭.

Someone liked this, so I'm RTing again?

One free advice, you can never have a good relationship with a man or a woman who hasn't attained ego death. You can take it to the bank.