A lot of women are reaching that stage where they want to be loved right or left ALONE completely. No in between. No second chances.

no one talks about the resentment you have towards yourself after you didn’t listen to your gut

Girl to girl: It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.

i truly wanna be a WIFE, BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. a submissive wife, a cooking wife, a loving wife, a peaceful wife, a secure wife, a comfortable and safe wife. to an honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, fun, spontaneous, God fearing husband.

my therapist once said "people don't abandon the people they love, they abandon the people they're using" and that was all the closure i needed

You ever been hurt by someone and what they did affected you so significantly, that it even altered the way you view the world. To them, what they did to you was so insignificant and they don’t even realize how much damage they’ve caused. They go on about life dilly dallying,

You can usually tells how much someone loves you (even in friendship) by how good they take your photos

If love was real, the answer would've been, “let’s fix this,” “let’s fight for this.” Not silence, not avoidance, not distance, but effort. Real love doesn't give up, it shows up.

i saw a tiktok about a guy buying flowers for his girlfriend and keeping one for himself so he knows when they’re dying and when to buy new ones for her… guys, i’m not okay 😭

90% of my L's came from making sure someone else was okay

Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >

Sis, sometimes you have to let a man that was never on your level to begin with, go right back to what he is used to, you are not for everyone.

Shoutout to the men who genuinely enjoy being leaders and providers cause we really living in a sassy man apocalypse 😭

As an easily overwhelmed girl, I’ve mastered not giving a fuck if it’s stressing me out. If there’s nothing I can do about it, then it’s above me. Things will figure itself out.

unfortunately your ability to move on is dependent on how high your self-esteem and self-respect is

This generation 20s be so cunt 😍😩