I knew this was not normal. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/14/i-k…

My wishes ignored due to lack of Staff. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/14/my-…

Not one thing in my birth plan happened allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/15/not…

I was bullied into a decision I was completely against. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/15/i-w…

I wish… allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/i-w…

I felt the only thing I ‘could’ offer my son was skin to skin & delayed cord clamping.. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/i-f…

Better outcome mentally if I was treated with dignity, respect & intelligence! allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/bet…

My post-operative haemorhage still haunts me.. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/my-…

I had to stave-off unnecessary interventions… it was my husband who helped me to change position! allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/i-h…

It was stressful & distracting to be yelled at when I needed silence. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/it-…

From the moment I was diagnosed as diabetic I felt I was no longer in control…. I’m still suffering 3 years later. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/fro…

I needed more support! allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/19/i-n…

Release the fear of the ‘red-tape.’ allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/25/rel…

My choices were removed, my distress dismissed, consent & information absent. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/25/my-…

Declining a vaginal exam denied me access to the labour ward.… allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/26/dec…

My list of what mattered to me… allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2016/01/28/my-…

“Compassionate care and respect for a labouring woman’s choices, dignity and privacy ….. they matter.… allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2017/04/24/com…

I just wanted to be left alone, & I didn’t know I could to say ‘no’ to vaginal exams. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2017/05/26/i-j…

“I felt like the control of my own body was taken away, no one told me what would happen, it left me feeling… allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2018/01/15/i-f…

I’m not sure I could go through the indignity, sense of powerlessness and fear all over again. allthatmattersproject.wordpress.com/2018/01/23/im-…