Arya Patel
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30-04-2017 02:44:12
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you can’t reason with someone who’s already decided to misunderstand you. even if your questions and explanations are kind and logical, they find ways to flip narratives & place blame on you. some people are unreasonable on purpose so they don’t have to be emotionally vulnerable
people stress the importance of having healthy communication skills - but part of being a healthy communicator is understanding that not everyone has a communication style that fits with ours. its up to us to discern if our respective styles are harmonious, or too much of a clash
never regret the love you have shown people. if you showed up in someone’s life with nothing but gentleness, kindness and compassion - it’s not on you if they couldnt return it. the fact you’re abundant enough to express love loudly and unapologetically is beautiful. don’t change
I can’t express this enough, you have NO IDEA what other people carry with them everyday. You have NO IDEA what someone’s life is like. Don’t create more pain & stress to others. Be kind. BE genuine. Stop being so mean to people to fulfill whatever it is you don’t like about you