…and regretted it

Lakini me ni mtu tu nafaa kua na pesa.

There are daughters who were abused by their mothers, and then became mothers, and loved their kids well. Happy cycle breaking mothers day!

#parents #behavior #children #narcissist

i just read something that said “we aren’t meant to address everything we find out. Just adjust your guard.” I finally grasped that concept.

& move on before the real damage occurs.

You can deny your childhood trauma all you want but your romantic life will reveal the truth every time

Got gifted a mini sketchpad & this was the first thing I sketched...

And you won’t see male doctors crack jokes and banter about Erectile Dysfunction or prostrate issues etc It’s just female reproductive issues where you find male doctors ‘bantering’ and giving ‘patient education’ without ‘sentimentality’ Misogynistic bastards

Introverts are not socially awkward, they're socially intelligent. The thing is they have zero interest in fitting in. They have their own world. Vibing alone, thinking, observing, learning. Thriving in solitude. Not caring. That's just who they are. Take it or leave.

All of 4'9 Rose Njeri came out of jail with a speech written on a brown paper bag and dropped a statement colder than prime Nelson Mandela.

You choosing who knows your story isn’t keeping a secret, it’s keeping a boundary. There’s a lot of secondary trauma that happens when your story is heard by the wrong crowd.

crazy how peaceful life becomes when you heal and raise the bar on who gets access to your energy.

Some people just don’t realize how much of a privilege it is to be apart of someone’s life and journey until they are on the outside trying to wiggle their way back in again. Treating and doing good people who are genuine wrong is never okay.

You either understand people or get played by them. Human nature is predictable. Learn it. See patterns. Read between the lines. The strongest minds see moves before they happen.

life really does come all the way together on a random sunday afternoon

Everyday scary rn.

Once I’m out of this stage of my life, I pray I never experience it again💔