As an adult, there's really no reason to find yourself in a social setting where you feel genuinely uncomfortable. Have your Uber money ready at all times. As an adult, your vex money has to be ready at all times. Vex money = Uber, flight, hotel money, etc.
When Imam Ahmed Bin Hanbal’s wife passed away he said, “Wallahi I lived with her for 40 years and we didn’t argue once.” He was asked how? He replied, “Whenever she gets upset and tries to argue, I stay quiet. And whenever I’m upset and try to argue, she stays quiet.”