The way you never forget how you’re handled during a vulnerable time.

A man who can’t control his temper will never be able to control a household. All he gonna do is create fear, tension, and chaos where peace supposed to live. Leadership takes patience, not tantrums.

One thing about a person who’s really for you. They don’t disappear just cause the energy off that day. Even when y’all bump heads, even when the vibe shaky, they still make sure you straight in some way. Real care don’t clock out when things get rough it shows up louder.

i don’t beat up the old me. i love her, i understand her and i know exactly why she did what she did.. nobody can hold the old me over my head or use ME against ME because without her i wouldn’t be who i am today. this is me

Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑 They’ll enter your life like they were sent… then exit like they were borrowed.

expecting me to hold your hand & comfort you through the consequences of choosing to treat me poorly is delusional.

do not choose chemistry over character. because chemistry won't wake up at 3am to console you in your heaviest grief. sparks stop flying when life becomes riddled with reality.

Wish them well and let that shit go.

i heard a lady on a podcast say...."I finally get it...I am the problem. I walk into people's life with energy, loyalty, love, and peace they never had...and truthfully, never deserved. i disrupt their comfort zone of chaos. they're not used to real. they're addicted to

Men really think if you liked them once, you'll like them forever. Babe, I don't even like the version of me that liked you.

being a mom is so wild because you really just wake up everyday and do everything. regardless of how you feel. you just do it and that's super impressive. im proud of us. 💕

I’m a full time mother, if i say I’m tired, bitch I’m tired.

No im not. Delete my number.

“I have a boyfriend” doesn’t stop them, “I’m married” doesn’t stop them. But “I love money and expensive gifts” that one always works

I stayed with a man who was half ready. I hoped. I waited. I extended grace. I tried to meet him where he was instead of honoring where I was. Over time, his lack of readiness pulled me out of my character. I became reactive. I became hardened. I started responding in ways that

Stop letting them waste your time ‼️‼️‼️

I Spoil My Own Child So People Can Keep Their Promises You Won’t Get To Disappoint Mine.

I know this is gonna piss so many people off but When you put pressure on a weak man, pressure to communicate, to lead, to commit, to grow. He doesn't rise; he downgrades. He doesn't step up; he steps out. And more often he runs straight into the arms of a woman who demands less,

Men be like… “let’s take it slow financially, but let’s take it fast physically”

They never told you China and Japan had Black nobility: The Shang Dynasty begins with King Tang, descendant of a black man called Naki, a name that meant “black. In JAPAN, the original black elites included Black samurai families, Black Buddhist delegates, and Moorish traders