Normalize not forcing connections with people. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.

Maturity is accepting you won't always get the answers or apologies for the shit that hurt your heart...but you heal anyway.

February 14? the real ones know it’s February 28

I think I’m triggered by the blonde drama because growing up blonde is traumatic. Everyone thinks it’s okay to openly insinuate that you are “dumb” or “stupid”. They write you off immediately because of your hair color. They determine your worth based on yellow hair.

it’s 2023 mind ya own business thanks 🤭

hardest pill i swallow this year was learning that no matter how good you could be to someone‚ no matter how much you love them‚ they can & they will turn their back on you & there’s absolutely nothing you can do but suck it up & keep moving forward.

Dealing with family problems, unstable mental health, anxiety, insecurities, self blame at such a young age is not easy at all.

over the years, i would bend so far to accommodate everyone else that i would nearly break. i was good at giving too much while sacrificing my own well being because i thought that was what you’re supposed to do. that was the norm. but now, i have learned that +,

Can’t tell me that Margie Knight doesn’t have a hand in this….

Nobody talks about the HARD part of upgrading your life. The working 24/7, missing out on a lot, losing friends/relationships because you're too busy, always being tired, the wondering if you'll ever reach the goals you're trying to reach.

i just saw this painting that said “i’m glad we don’t talk anymore but i still think about you on your birthday” and it’s genuinely so real. there’s so many people i outgrew, lost connection with, or cut ties on good or bad terms but i always remember them on their birthday

Me in my brother's room seeing what shirt i can steal from him:

me telling my best friend all my family drama:

its so unfair that this trauma is not my fault but its my responsibility to heal

Right now life is teaching me the law of detachment. ain’t nothing really yours, you gotta be comfortable with not being attached, just enjoying life for what it is & moving on when it’s time

Me coming home after being friendly and social all day: