If u miss me kill your fucking ego and text me

I can easily tell when someone has fallen for the idea of me and not me. It’s really simple kiddos, they never ask questions to get to know you more. In their mind they already know you.

Come back

I love seeing couples who are actual best friends w/ each other. Not a relationship based solely on duty & societal expectations but one based on mutual understanding, laughter, shared experiences, shared interests & more. I genuinely think these are the happiest relationships.

ngl depression isn’t always feeling deep sadness. sometimes it’s watching yourself lose interest in everything you love and not being able to do anything about it.

this actually makes me feel extremely uncomfortable

You’ll never heal if you keep romanticising the person who hurt you. Bc ppl don’t change just bc they find someone new. They continue to do what they’ve always done until someone asks for more. That avoidant ex you couldn’t get close to, is still avoidant. Let me explain.

Until the newness fades and their avoidance is activated again. Even if it looks like they’re more open with the new person. Even if it looks like they suddenly know how to communicate. It’s not real change. It’s the honeymoon phase. And you went through it too.

But what you didn’t know was that they had one foot out the entire time. Pulling away in subtly. Over apologising but under delivering. Bc closeness wasn’t the goal. Control over how much they give… was. An avoidant loved to romanticise love, but always from afar.

A they love the idea of it but panic at it’s reality. They’ll speak about their exes as “crazy,” “toxic,” or “emotionally unstable.”But they never tell the full story. They don’t say, “I ignored their bids for connection.”

They don’t say, “I emotionally starved them, then blamed them for reacting.” They don’t say, “I flirted with others during our breaks, but still kept them emotionally invested.” They just say, “They were too much.” But never admit how they were never enough.

What looks like vulnerability in new relationships, mentioning you or their ex’s, sharing their traumas, oversharing past pain is just strategic transparency. They show emotion when it paints them as the victim or when it helps them bond faster.

They talk about their feelings but never from their feelings. It’s the diff between showing you the house and letting you step inside. So in the beginning, they seem emotionally available. They talk about the “toxic” ex. They tell you how much they tried.

my cramps feel like contractions atp

i have officially signed up for class dojo as a parent, i miss my newborn

he doesn’t even know that i wanna cook and wash his pile of dirty clothes for him but that’s just it, he’ll never know bc i’ll never tell him

why tf am i so clingy