matching someone’s nonchalant energy when u’re naturally sweet and caring is mentally draining and damaging. you can lose yourself and never get it back.
if you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. i’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. these are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.
the feeling of knowing that you're in a big transitional stage of your life can be so surreal. it’s exciting, terrifying, and grief-filled all at once. the “shedding” process can be very confusing and overwhelming but you can’t enter your new life attached to your old one
