Submission takes a lot of trust

is there an effect where I might be so attractive I actually intimidate men? sometimes men I’m interested in act weird or awkward around me - especially when I’m dressed up - and I’ve been taking it as “woah am I offputting somehow”? but maybe it’s the reverse

I love you with my broken heart

Today I learned I can feel rejected by the simple act of desiring someone. Like, sometimes I storymake the fact I’m interested as evidence that they won’t be. What if…it’s possible to desire while *also* feeling reciprocally met? ❤️

a condom is such an intimate place to put a piece of plastic

feels like I’ve become more autistic about sex. it used to be “all sex is definitionally great, yay!” and after living that out hurt me, now I’m all “what are we doing omg what is happening this makes no sense I need a belief system, a framework”

wait if watching porn is SO common what if it’s actually perfectly biologically normal and shame-free and even arousing to watch other people have sex? what would a society where that’s more normal look like? where sex wasn’t necessarily a private thing

cannot for the life of me understand why anxious and avoidant people attract each other none of the explanations I’ve heard make any sense

so I’m really hot but I have NO idea how to convert that into improving my life. people seem to assume it naturally will, but that hasn’t been my experience… what are your tips. how can my looks improve my life

why do I assume people I’m close to actually want me to go away it’s such a miserable automatic knee-jerk thing

why are there so many hot emotionally unavailable people it’s a trap brb learning to compassionately avoid them

For my next trick, I will take “this relationship didn’t work out because there wasn’t enough stability in our lives” personally

my #1 sex tip by far is “be in love”