Accountability is so important to me. Nobody is perfect, but ain’t no way you about to convince me that my reaction to your actions is the problem.

being able to say “hey this bothers me” … & seeing the change almost instantly 🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢

a partner who updates you because they know how badly you can overthink while waiting for them is top tier

dating someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you and loves a little extra on your bad days >>

If my man killed somebody I wouldn’t dare tell on him but I would absolutely use it against him. Like “you still getting me that truck or I gotta call 911??” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I want my man to be able to enjoy his life and still be faithful. Go out and have fun with your friends. Just respect me in my absence. That's all I ask.

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everything is temporary, literally everything.

worst battle i ever fought was between what i felt and what i knew.

Offering friendship as a consolation prize for a failed romantic connection attempt is absolutely cruel.

Let's normalize being overly obsessed with your partner. Be soft. Be extra. Be in love

in a relationship i have to admit that my biggest flaw is that i constantly need to feel the love or i'll assume it's gone.

A girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. you just stop showing it" and that's real life.

Now I finally understand the difference between people who love me, people who love to be around me and people who love what I can do for them.

I fell in love with this sentence: “Forgive yourself for not knowing earlier what only time could teach.”

if you want to do “6 months locked in”. i’d suggest you start with 1 hour. one book. 50 pages. each day, fighting your urge to touch the phone. and gradually, you’ll see your attention span coming back home to you, and by the end of the year you will have lived your best life.

Facing your own mess is heavy. Coming to terms with the choices YOU made, the times YOU didn’t protect yourself, the moments you crossed your own boundaries. That point where you realize everybody can’t take the blame and you had a hand in what fell apart too. Sitting with that