y'all be upset w your partner having a life outside of you? if anything i can't be w you if you don't have a life, friends and family outside of me. i don't need no one sitting at home, all up under me 24/7. have a life, chill w your boys, give each other time to miss each other.
Depression is also getting up & going to work everyday, keeping up with yourself, laughing, putting on makeup, going out with your friends. Functional depression is also very real.