5: Everything is EARNED You get what you earn. Don’t blame the coach. Encourage your child to be committed. It is your child’s job to get in the weight room, shoot in the driveway, go to the gym or field, etc. Encourage them to do this. You get what you earn.

6: Trust the PROCESS Team Sports are the ultimate lab setting for life. There will be bumps in the road. It is guaranteed. It is part of the process. Accept this fact. Trust the Process. The life lessons learned will last a lifetime.

7: Winning is HARD. Other teams want to win too. Other teams put time in too. Other teams compete too. The season is a grind and the process is more important than the prize. Learning how to win…and how to lose…is an important part of this process. Accept the Struggle.

8: Your child GETS it. Your child understands. They are at every practice. They know their strengths. They know their weaknesses. They know their role. Don’t feed their youthful insecurities by questioning the coach. This will hurt their experience and the team.

9: Finally, and Most Importantly, this is your CHILD'S EXPERIENCE, not yours. This is important. Let them enjoy the experience with your support. Don’t judge them. Don’t be critical. Just be there. Tell them you LOVE watching them play. Be a fan of the TEAM.

The best part is watching my kids love each and every one of my girls 🥹 GO! ALL of you!

Love all these three. Love being your coach.

Coaching at ANY level is becoming a thankless job & because this profession means SO much to me, it’s time we (families, fans, friends) recognize how much time, love & dedication goes into our teams & our players as people. The scrutiny has to be better. People need to be better.

Stop telling women how to play. Stop telling women how to celebrate. Stop telling women how to act.

So proud of this kid!

Well deserved Sadie Cat!

Why are we not celebrating contacts by NAIA, D3, D2, & JUCOS like D1 contacts are celebrated? I see A LOT of Athletes posting about Sep 1 or pics of mail from D1 colleges. Reality: There are D3’s, D2’s, JUCO’s & NAIA’s that can outplay more D1’s than you think. Celebrate

Didn’t get the calls you wanted Sept. 1? Why? What do you need to change? Can you look in the mirror & say you are out working everyone in the country? Are you consistent? Who holds you accountable? Who gives you honest feedback? Do you execute in game? Are you a great

Good things shall come for this kid! Keep it up 💪🏽 Bella Diggs 🥎 2026

Getting updates on how well my players do in HS games is the greatest thing as a coach. They choose to text me, they choose to reach out. Proud is an understatement. 🥰🥰

Team dinner and lots of laughs after going 2-0 today in the TC Fastpitch San Diego World Series. Back at it tomorrow starting at 11:30am!! Come watch us at Poway Sportspex!

Can’t be more proud of this team this week! One more day! Let’s get it!

📣 TO SOFTBALL ATHLETES: Let’s Talk About Wanting D1 🥎 “Wanting D1” can mean a lot of things. But have you really thought through this goal completely? 🔹 Do you want to actually play… or just be on the roster? 🔹 Are you okay with spending your first few years watching from

Why Setting Your Values Matters in Choosing a College 🥎🔥 When it comes to deciding where you want to attend school, one of the most important steps is setting your personal values. Without them, it’s easy to get caught up in what looks good on social media, what your teammates

This kid will do magical things. So proud, that’s an understatement