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A narcissist will be angry at you and seek revenge once you discover who they truly are.

Narcissists believe that if you question or point out their abuse you’re the one being abusive.

A narcissist will tell you that they will love you forever, only to later confess that they never loved you at all.

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Imagine your daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend… gets raped and the monster impregnates her. Then she is forced to carry the baby fullterm having to possibly later deal with the rapist wanting parental rights. In this scenario the rapist has more rights than the female he…

Emotional neglect is abuse and can lead to lasting trauma.

Every time you reconcile with a narcissist after they have done something horrible to you, or violated your boundaries, the abuse gets worse. They’ll punish and blame you for whatever vile thing they did and assume that you’re ok with it because you allowed them back.

Normal people get upset when others lie. Narcissists get upset when people tell the truth.

Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time. It’s one of the hardest things you may ever do. Give yourself time and grace. Recognize and celebrate your progress during your healing journey. You are worth celebrating! ❤️‍🩹

Narcissistic triangulation is a method that narcissists use to maintain control over the narrative & to keep their victims from comparing notes. It involves bringing in a 3rd person(s) to create a triangle of competition, lies, resentment, chaos, & jealousy. Triangulation creates…

You’re remembering it wrong. You took it the wrong way. Can’t you take a joke? I don’t remember that happening. I didn’t mean it that way. Don’t be so sensitive.

What are some things you’ve heard narcissists say? Comment below. ⬇️

Narcissistic withholding is used to punish victims & as a way to gain power & control. Withholding can be physical or emotional. It can be done by refusing to share or engage in conversations, ghosting, removal of intimacy & affection, limiting resources & never giving praise…

Always remember that the “good times” with a narcissist were manufactured and manipulative. When the mask is off they show you who they truly are. Believe them when they show you.

Narcissists are the most dangerous liars because they believe they are telling the truth.

Narcissistic mirroring is a manipulation tactic. Some narcissists stalk their victims in order to learn everything about them, what they like & copy them. When the victim meets the narcissist they magically have so much in common. This is how they create the soul mate effect.

During the lovebombing phase the relationship with a narcissist feels like a fantasy, because it is a fantasy. It’s not real. It’s a manipulation tactic used to create a strong bond & a sense of connection. It is how the narcissist gets you hooked & establishes power & control.

Narcissists don’t want relationships, they want servants to wait on them hand and foot. They want a caretaker, a maid, a human ATM, a parent, someone to make them look good, a babysitter, someone that will satisfy their needs… They will never see their “partner” as an equal.