i'm officially in my quiet era. whatever happens, happens. i don’t have much to say about anything anymore. it is what it is and life goes on.

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A relationship without emotional safety is not a relationship. It's just an attachment or a trauma bond. you deserve to express yourself freely, to voice your needs, to require resolution after disagreements and to feel emotionally safe in your relationship.

People think intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth, acceptance, and safety. When you can freely share your thoughts and feelings without fear of being judged or ridiculed, and show them who you really are and their response is "You're safe with me" - that's intimacy.

It's having heart-to-hearts, staying up all night talking, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It's uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact and feeling each other without touching - it's exchanging energy.

thinking you can heal while still being in contact with the person you need to heal from

lack of attention, lack of communication, lack of effort, lack of anything can make you fall out of love with someone, that's why it's important to keep doing the small things, keep talking, keep checking in with each other to make sure you guys are on track and okay.

And y’all can call me sensitive if you want but I promise we are not friends after this 😂

I will retweet this every time it comes down my timeline. It’s one of my favorite interview moments from a celebrity.

You disrespect yourself when you rekindle a relationship that humiliated you. Forgiveness is one thing but you have to have boundaries. You can’t always be nice. That’s how people take advantage of you. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.

the mental switch from “why am i not enough?” to “it’s strange that there are people in my life that make me feel that i need to prove my worth to them” is so drastic and sudden tbh.

Normalize not forcing people to choose you. Know your worth and what you have to offer, and never settle for anything less than you deserve. If somebody doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.

Amen

He still got her giggly and blushing x amount of years in. You cant ever stop flirting with and pursuing your partner. Keep the romance alive!

When women love you they just can’t control theyself they be so happy in spirit lol especially when they trust you fr

I support this and those “this is our get along shirt” punishments 100000%

It’s taking you a little longer because you aren't lying, using people, cheating, manipulating, or selling your soul. Don't rush anything. The slower the process, the deeper the roots, and the stronger the values. It's the journey that matters, not the destination.

In a relationship you can’t just do what you want. You have to always think about the other person, and that’s what a lot of people don’t understand.

Consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make u feel. Pays attention to detail. Thinks of u when making decisions that could affect u