rest of the year

Y’all keep saying holidays don’t hit the same. Fam. We are the new adults. WE have to plan things. WE have to cook.

yeh worst realization ever

stumbled into one of Vincent van gogh’s letters to his brother and in it he says ‘If I’m worth something later, I’m worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is grass in the beginning.’

You have to decide to be happy

People move on after mistreating you. They’re not sitting up in a room like Brandy thinking about you. Most of the time they move on and live perfectly fine after doing you dirty. So release yourself from the shackles of waiting for someone to regret how they mistreated you

men will drive you to insanity and then ask why you don’t bring peace

thinking you’re punishing me by rewarding me with my own solitude is a lot of people’s first mistake, not only have you taught me how to live without you but reminded me just how much i don’t have to compromise when i’m in my own company

While we’re banning books… Finland is teaching children in school how to recognize fake news and propaganda as part of critical thinking and civic responsibility. Some of this will seem very familiar. Be. Like. Finland.

as a lovergirl a lot of people will crave your presence, your devotion, your nurturance, but lack the ability to reciprocate those things. that’s where your discernment, intuition and discipline come into play.

being in a healthy relationship has taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. when you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality

PHEW 😮‍💨😮‍💨

only day 3, this man is going to have us in 1955 by Saturday

I don't usually like anybody, so the contrast is immediately clear.

The way he spoke the words while looking into her eyes, and asked if she was ready before kneeling to give her the ring. He knows his person. It wasn't just a proposal. It was a proposal FOR HER.

Men want peace, but half of the time, the 'peace' they're begging for is silence while they misbehave