Siblings can grow up in the same home, but have completely different experiences of their childhood and their parents. Here's why:

Y’all: “I be dodging them kisses during sex” Me:

2016/2017 me who wouldn’t leave the house without a full face of make up would be so proud of 2022/2023 only skincare and lashes me

I find calm men so attractive

invest in your room, that shit is really your sanctuary

Let's talk about growing up as the invisible child:

apple charging me $17 , $5 , $5 , $10 , $11 every fuckin month and idk what i’m paying for

Childhood trauma (emotional neglect or abuse, abandonment etc) mutes our anger response. We learn to repress our anger and to feel not anger at all when we should (dissociation.) Many adults who show no anger at all are deeply furious, internally. They shove it down with food,

the person I am today is someone I would feel safe around as a child and that’s my biggest flex. even if I never accomplish anything else in life, I broke the cycle.

“Let’s talk on cash app” 💀💀

I’ve been in the mood to move to a new city and start over

If you grew up in a home with constant screaming or yelling, your body remembers. You might startle easily. Or feel like sobbing when someone yells. How To Heal:

if you don’t clean your ears please stop trying to pass me one of your AirPods 😭😭 there’s nothing I want to listen to that bad

Very DEMURE

Body dysmorphia is such a bitch