No woman wants a man who feels sorry for himself.

Women don’t run on logic. Women don’t make decisions based on truth or facts. They don’t spend their money based on data.  They don’t connect because of some higher philosophical truth.  They don’t get attracted to a man based on logic.  Women run on feelings.

Every second you spend sitting around, avoiding the world, and staying away from your true desires is a moment you’re giving up the greatest gift of all: YOUR TIME IN THIS LIFE.  The clock’s ticking, and life doesn’t wait.  Go after what you want — and do it ruthlessly.

Get out there and expose yourself to women. If you see a woman you like, tell her, ask her out.  Yes, that means you’ll probably get hurt.  But honestly, so what?  The best things in life aren’t gift-wrapped and handed to you on a platter — especially love.

All women are not alike.  There is no such thing as a one-shoe-fit-all type of solution when it comes to people.  People are different.  You cannot be attractive and life-changing to some women without being a joke or an embarrassment to others.  You simply can’t.

If you don’t find her attractive, don’t pursue her. When a woman opens her body & lets you into her life and heart, well, that’s a big deal. If you know she wants a serious relationship, don’t just keep her around to hook up whenever you feel like it. You’re better than that.

All humans are flawed & limited. But we have to learn to work with those rather than be delusional & pretend they aren’t there. The sooner you realize that you aren’t perfect, the sooner you can begin to work with it, instead of just trying to keep up the illusion that you are.

Most fear rejection. I don’t.  I don’t think rejection is this 'inherently bad thing.’  It’s not that women reject you to kick you down, nor does an employer hire someone else just to throw you to the curb.  It simply works to keep apart those who aren’t good for each other.

Meaningful change is, by definition, uncomfortable.  It's not a cozy vacation.  It’s not a spa day or anything cushy.  Real growth comes from pushing yourself to the edge of what you think you can handle — and then going further.  It’s messy and you need to prepare for that.