This is why sometimes booking a spa weekend, finding a better job, having less financial worries, being surrounded by people who’s presence calms you, sleeping more, feeling loved/supported, etc isn’t enough. There’s nothing wrong with you. You’ve just been through so much

self love is not a replacement or stand in for communal, platonic, or romantic love. no amount of trying will make that a reality.

📣 #MutualAidRequest

This. “Love yourself” is a terrible, callous thing to say to someone seeking community and care.

Also framing… sexlessness in men under 30 as an emergency… When women have lost access to abortion care… is pathetic

Now mind you no women suggesting men have a right to sex would volunteer as tribute to fuck them. They’ll just designate that to underbelly class of poor women to be used as objects.