Someone told me signing my emails with "Best" is passive aggressive so I'm changing it to "See you in hell" to eliminate any confusion

It's a big day for me!

Started Brenda Davies' memoir, "On Her Knees." It takes me back to the shame, pain, and sadness of my purity culture days. It's crazy how so many strangers share the same exact experiences and secret internal battles. God is Grey #purityculture #exvangelical

If, as the author claims, only men can be elders because they are natural protectors/defenders, then why are they doing such an abysmal job of responding to abuse within the church? #churchtoo #exvangelical

I've found that many ex-christians were extremely devout and reverent, moreso than many christians still in church. Once again, church leaders are too proud to listen to people with pain and trauma. People like Francis Chan should not be pastors.

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Sexual repression

so long as cishet husbands refuse to learn how to order their wives coffee in the drive thru, making them yell it from the passengers seat, the patriarchy will never be abolished

If there's one truly valuable writing skill I gained from my MA in history it's how to condense a very long tweet into 280 characters.

So many #asexual people I've heard speak have a wiser and more nuanced view of sex than most allosexual people I know. #pride

Michelle Pfeiffer in Grease 2

How do I get this thread on a t-shirt?

No one better fucking ask why survivors don't speak up more often.