i highly recommend getting yourself a “how can i help” partner and not “you will be fine” partner.

PLEASE!!! if you lose interest in a person, please make them aware. The coldness in ur tone and texts, the emptiness in your hugs, and spaces in ur conversations... calls not answered, those things hurt more than if you were to tell the truth, because they are like a slow deaťh.

Don't ignore me. You can tell me you don't wanna talk. You can tell me you need space. Whatever the case. Radio silence is a hard limit for me. It touches a very vulnerable place in me.

Please, date intelligent people. It’s very important.

I’m your partner in crime, you not doing this life thing alone. Your problems are mine and we figure them out together, we’re not perfect but we’re intentional. We communicate even when it’s uncomfortable.

It’s very attractive when your partner can educate you on topics you lack knowledge in. It’s a different kind of intimacy.

I like conversations about reaching goals & getting money✅

Becoming important in your family is even worse 😭😭

ngl… this would be great timing for one of those class action settlements to hit

My unsolicited advice: Bring back the casual hang. Go run errands with your friends. It doesn’t need to be expensive to have community.

It triggers the “leaver” in me.

If college was truly a scam, there wouldn't be a concerted effort to make sure Black people can't attend.

School is the surest way out of poverty. Take education seriously in 2026.

A lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing??? just living their lives with horribłe communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings FOREVER?????

If you have the money, pay for the comfort. There’s no award for suffering.

lmk if we’re going to the club so i can eat 2 chicken tenders

if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.

The tongue is so powerful, speak good over your life at all times.

I have to marry somebody who takes holidays seriously. A family person. Birthdays, graduations, anniversaries… everything must all be celebrated fully in my household.