When I’m going through things. I do not like talking to people on a daily basics. That's how I've always been because i easily become overwhelmed and overstimulated. 9/10 I'm the only person that can save me, so i like to isolate myself until I'm back to me. Y'all be expecting

I spent years overgiving in friendships & relationships. I was always the one checking in, showing love, making sure everybody was good & I forgot about me. Now I just want to be alone and focus on myself. I’m learning to pour into me the way I used to pour into everybody else

Idk about y’all, but I’ll never judge somebody based on something I heard about them. Cause I know how weird people are. People be lying on people just to turn people against them. People be hating on folks. And making things up to make people look bad to the world just cause

deleting later but my hot take of the day is that you can be there for your friends without expecting anything in return but you can also be sad when they dont show up for you

I'm so thankful i actually listen to music in so many languages like English, hindi, spanish, korean, arabic, telugu, french cuz imagine letting language come in the way of enjoying art

thinking about how in my early 20s i used to look at 27-28 year olds and think wow adults who have their shit together and now im almost the same age but my only thought is WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING

And I’m not being friends with no woman who is willingly being a side btch. Low self esteem and being another woman pain is pathetic. Loser.

Time passing isn’t an apology. Don’t let these kinds of people come back into your life and act like everything is normal if they couldn’t take accountability for what they did wrong in that moment, not weeks, months, or years later.

I recently heard someone say: "The amount of good things in your life depends on your ability to notice them." I can't see it any other way now.

I’m thankful for clarity this year. I have never been more clear about where I want to be and who I want to be surrounded by!

The older I get, the more I realize how simple a good life really is. Wake up early. Work out. Eat real food, sleep well. Obsess over something that matters. Spend time with loved ones. Avoid drama. Be grateful. You’ll already be healthier and happier than 85% of people.

. Other people’s emergencies are not my emergencies. . I stopped saving contacts unless our communication is consistent for 6 months. . I don’t advise people I don’t feed. . My sleep is very important.

Respectfully, I do not go above and beyond for people like i use to anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.

I'm NOT a backup friend! don't choose me when them baldhead bitches being weird to you.

people will do you so dirty and have the nerve to question why you're not interested in being around them anymore. baby, you don't provide me any peace, i can't trust you, i can't have my guard down around you, etc. like why would i want to keep you around?

I reconnect with people easily even after years of not talking because no friendship of mine is truly severed unless otherwise stated and there will always be a place in my life for everyone I once met

The woman I'm becoming is costing me people, relationships and spaces. I'm choosing her over everything.

genuinely thankful to people who made an effort to be my friend regardless of how distant and quiet I can be some times

If I’m being completely honest, half the things I went through were because of me, my lack of discipline, ignoring my gut feelings, my inability to set boundaries, say NO when necessary, and my poor decision-making.