You wanted to give them the love they've never experienced and now you got the pain you never deserved.....

People hate you when they can't manipulate you

Real😭

Let go of the fantasy that they had a heart like yours. They showed you exactly who they were—you just kept hoping to see yourself in someone whose intentions were never to love you.

softness that knows when to bite back

if you can visualize something in your head and yearn for it, there’s a version of you who already has it. it’s meant for you. keep persisting despite what you currently see and watch the magic happen for you.

normalize being private af and not sharing everything with everybody

Stop being so considerate in situations where you are not considered. Kindness is a gift, not an obligation. You'll be drained if you keep pouring into people who don't reciprocate. Protect your spirit and well-being. Redirect your warmth toward those who reflect it back to you.

Depression is a response, not a disorder. We have to stop medicalizing natural human emotions, and instead teach people how to deal with them.

Soulmates aren't just lovers – they're friends too. Your soulmates naturally recognize you, vibe with you, and align with you. They understand you, see you, support you, love you, heal with you, and grow with you. They make you feel beautiful in your own skin just for being YOU.

Imam Hasan al-Basri said: "Whoever performs acts of worship well and beautifully during their youth, Allah grants them wisdom in their older years." Then, he recited this verse from the Quran:

The feminine urge to listen to the birds every morning, to let the sun kiss my face, to be cozy, to read by candlelight, to take baths with rose petals, to write poetry, to write love letters, to eat delicious fruits, to dance, and to love only one man for the rest of my life

Abusive language is actually your intellectual failure. :))

Yesterday my husband had to work late so I stayed up and made him one of his favorite meals and my daughters were watching me in the kitchen and one said “daddy is so lucky to have you, you always do so much for him” to which I responded “I’m so lucky to have him, he does

Ya Allah please 😭🤲

There’s a different kind of pain when you’ve lost so much not just people, but parts of yourself too. When you don’t have support, when you’ve been betrayed by the ones you trusted, you start to feel numb. You don’t really want to shut people out,

when kafka said "all the love in the world is useless when there is total lack of understanding" and when richard siken said “if you love me, you don't love me in a way i understand."

Women find discipline attractive because it signals to our nervous systems that we can feel safe and relax. A man who has discipline in his body, gaze, actions, money, etc, is a trustworthy man with integrity and strong values. That is rare, sexy, and highly magnetic

The cruelest part is how trauma convinces you that isolation is safety when connection is the actual cure.