as i get older, nice weather is really something precious, something to enjoy, and something to talk about. like yes, this is a big deal. this sun, this light breeze. this is big.

Major cheat code in life: Speaking with conviction. Deliver, don't defend. The more you explain yourself, the more people think you have something to prove, something to hide, or you're unsure where you stand. Say it once. Say it clearly. Let your confidence do the convincing.

A lot of people are so obsesses with finding a "fit" with a romantic partner because they don't really want to have to do the work of changing in the way relationships demand.

Most mental health issues are downstream of people being disconnected from their soul. We're accomplishing things without understanding why we're accomplishing them and what it means in the greater scheme of things. Humans weren't meant to live lives of abundance. We are created

Underrated way to live a happier life: Surround yourself with people who see the world the same way you do. They value the same things. Prioritize the same things. Have similar levels of ambition and drive. Same hobbies. Ignore others and let them do their own thing and live

I have been reading Carl Jung and to be honest was skeptical of his idea that dreams communicate via common symbols the meaning of which we ourselves are not aware of. So I let ChatGPT interpret another dream which at first glance made no sense and it 100% clicked with the

The older you get the more you realize that peace isn't found, it's chosen. You won't just suddenly stumble into the right relationship, the right job, or the right routine. You will have to learn to choose the things you claim you want. Most people are too addicted to what hurts

If you want to enjoy life treat it like a game. Every challenge is a bigger boss, and you're spending the rest of your life levelling up to face them. There is no greater joy than becominga better, wiser, stronger person every single day. There is no greater blessing than having

Adulthood is just learning to do what needs to be done instead of what you feel like doing. Most people never make this shift because they never make peace with discomfort.

There is no aspect of adult life that doesn’t improve with marriage. The idea that marriage somehow requires a trade-off against career, traveling, or financial independence is illogical nonsense. All of these are hugely facilitated by marriage.

Parents think they are sacrificing for their children by living lives they hate without realizing how much the kids are damaged by the angry, uptight energy such parents bring into the home.

Consistent, stable love is the greatest gift you can give to someone. It's how trust is built and how wounds are undone.

It’s wild how people are always walking a thin line between who they are and who they could become if they stopped caring about the things that tether them (the shadow self Jung talked about). Jung believed the “shadow” is the part of us that contains everything we repress:

If people knew more about how memory works they would realize how dangerous it is to make pictures "come alive" with AI.