At this age, you have to think long term. Focus on your career and goals. Save money, find someone who you can hustle and pray with. We can no longer afford to waste time. Focus on things that matters in the long run, stability, loyalty & peace of mind.

Choosing a husband or wife is your responsibility but your kids can't choose their father or mother. You’re the one who chooses for them. Choosing a good dad or good mom for your future kids is your responsibility and it's not one that you should take lightly.

Don’t get mad when someone starts to appreciate the person you took for granted💔 You had your chance and you played with it

Avoid eggshell type of relationships, you can’t express yourself, you can’t be yourself, you can’t ever be straight forward, you can’t be comfortable, you can’t talk like adults, you can’t be heard, you can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative.

Stop dating people who feel they’re doing you a favour by being with you. Be with someone who’s scared of losing you. Be with someone who’s proud of being with you. Be with someone that thinks you’re their best fit. Relationships are awful when one party desires it way more.

Just because you hate someone doesn’t mean God won’t bless them. God doesn’t punish people because we dislike them. He is a just God. Our feelings about people hold no water in the grand scheme of things.

If he can’t plan a date , he can’t plan a future.

Don’t try and be perfect for me. Show me where it hurts the most so I know where to love you the hardest. Because all I ever want to do is give you the love that you deserve.

Loving yourself enough to walk away isn’t weakness; it’s courage. It’s choosing to honor your needs, your peace, and your heart. You’re worthy of the kind of love that makes you feel whole, and sometimes the greatest act of love is the one you give yourself.

If they don’t value your presence, let them learn to value your absence.

I hope that when you’re ready to love again, your heart finds its way into gentle, tender hands, full of sincere love.

Everyone wants a " good man " until that good man requires you to be a good woman