Woman to woman :
If your husband is stopping you from job and going out alone, then do not think of it as control, it is his love and if he is stopping you from talking about certain things where there is no need for you to speak,then he is trying to teach you wisdom and patience
No wonder women without marriage and without kids end up alone with the money but no one there to love them specially after 40s its a dark for them every single mint of it