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Tilley Burnman

@tburnman

Happily Divorced since 2018. I want to let others know that it’s okay to leave a bad situation. Abuse comes in many forms and sometimes it’s hard to see it.

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calendar_today27-01-2019 00:52:20

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A narcissist can be a great storyteller. They captivate you with tales of personal triumphs, heroism, even selflessness. But its when you look behind the curtain that you discover they’ve rewritten history. Not only are they living in a fantasy, you believed their self-mythology

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She convinced me that he just wanted me for the extra money. In fact when we broke up she comforted me by saying “It’s okay darling, you are fat and ugly and no one will ever want you so you can just stay here with me.” #mentalabuseisabuse #abused

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She died later that year and honestly it was one of the best things that ever happened to me.#mentalabuseisabuse #manipulation

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Today my niece posted that if she could bring anyone back it from the dead it would be here and honestly it #triggered me. Her and my sister know what I went through but they didn’t see it so they don’t believe it. #hiddenabuse #mentalabuseisabuse

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It hurts that I am so fucked up and traumatized from my mother but because my sister is 15 years older than me and left home at 17 she never say it. I have to sit and listen to them mourn for the person who made me hate me who made me think I didn’t deserve love #abuse #scars

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It took years of trying to build up my self confidence to speak in front of people and when I finally managed my world was completely changed. #confidenceissexy #confidence #OvercomingAdversity

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I went from being this hidden social butterfly to training classes of 20+ people. Not only did I love it but I was good at it. But after three years of training the same thing I became bored so I took a promotion

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The promotion came with a relocation and I left my mentally abusive husband. I moved by myself to place where the only person I had met was the lady who rented me my apartment. It was great for a while. Eventually I ended up living with my high school sweetheart.

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Things looked up but at the end of August I got laid off. I was broken. I had given everything to my company. 29 days later they offered me another position less pay but I would have a job so I took it

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Worst mistake. I am miserable. I was hoping that 5 months later I would like it but it broke me. I hate my job and everyday is a struggle. Before this I would happily get up and make sure I was en pointe from head to toe. Now I can barely blow dry my hair.

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Today I am not okay. Today I want to quit and crawl back under the covers. Today I would rather not wake up instead of going in.

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I know that this is oversharing but it’s a big thing for me. Today I suggested intimacy with my boyfriend and didn’t have to build myself up for days before I asked. This is a huge step for me! #recovering #contollingex #MentalHealthIsImportant

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I got sent to twitter jail for calling a man a ‘coward’ because he said he was going to spit in my face if he saw me. His tweets didn’t break any rules but mine did lol Got some fragile ass men up in twitter that’s for damn sure.

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My boyfriend and I are both living post narcissistic abuse. His abusers narcissistic personality contributed to the loss of his child. He is healing but will never be the same.