'The best thing to do is to be present in the hookup situation and allow yourself to feel pleasure. Making a conscious decision to have sex with someone — versus not really wanting to but consenting anyway — is the best way to ensure orgasm.' kinkly.com/how-to-take-ca… Kinkly

There’s no reason your penis has to have all the fun. Involving other body parts can supercharge your orgasm. Rub a skin-friendly oil like coconut oil all over your body & experiment w/ stimulating other areas like your nipples. menshealth.com/sex-women/g219… BEX Jordyn Taylor

“Some neurodiverse people prefer this position because they find eye contact overwhelming or distracting. Others like being able to fantasize during sex or think whatever thoughts get them off w/o being compelled to focus on their partner.” cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/posit… Jill Hamilton

'Some love being on birth control & others hate it. I'm thankful that women have so many options to choose from. I tell my patients to do what is right for them. It's their body & they deserve to feel good about their choices.'-Dr.Aimee Eyvazzadeh beautyindependent.com/birth-control-… Beauty Independent

'With each verb in this book, with each active-voice chapter, I am writing myself into being. If the nature of things is the nature of words, we can change how things work through the words we write & speak.'-a favorite line from my book!

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Still looking for this, and would also like to speak with intersex, two-spirit, and non-binary people about this same topic. [email protected]. Thank you!!

'Idiopathic' health conditions — those without a known cause — are really under-researched, under-funded, and often disproportionately female conditions.

There isn't any health condition without a cause. Lack of knowledge of root causes is due to lazy science & gender bias.

Everyone deserves pleasure! And, a sure-fire way to enance your partner's odds of having the most pleasure: ASK what they like!

For a book I'm working on, I'm looking to speak with a trans woman about how binary views of sex & gender may have influenced her ability to get medical care (not just gender-affirming care but other forms). Please email me: [email protected]. Thank you!

'Psychedelics are not meant to just have a psychedelic experience; they’re meant to show us what’s possible. Integrating that sense of self-love is something that has become part of my everyday practice of life.”
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Can we please just abolish the question 'why are you single?'?

Literally everyone is single at times. Nobody is in relationships for their entire life. If they were, that would be unhealthy.

This question stigmatizes singlehood; we rarely ask, 'why are you in a relationship?'

There's no more surefire way to screw up online dating than to write a message with just a question mark after someone doesn't respond for an hour

The hymen:
-grows elastic during puberty so it can stretch
-is intact in many sexually active people
-need not 'tear' while biking or horseback riding either
-has very few blood vessels
-in fact, most vulva owners don't bleed during first-time intercourse
IOW you've been lied to!

If someone doesn't prioritize you, that doesn't mean you're not worthy of prioritization. It means they're not capable of it.

You don't need to get anyone to prioritize you to prove your worth. You don't need to prove your worth, period. Others' abilities say nothing about you.