Don’t make the mistake of assuming all people are motivated in the same way as you. Some people are motivated only by control and sadistic enjoyment of humiliating, demeaning, disadvantaging and destroying others. They just cover it well.

The SEX life of the narcissist/psychopath/coercive controller (predator)… 1. Their sexual world is boundaryless. In sexuality and in relationships, they comfortably break laws, moral codes, and agreements. They often hide this exceptionally well. 2. They often use sexuality to

Reciprocity means if you do something for someone else, at some point, they will do you a solid in return. Dark personalities (narcissists, psychopaths, coercive controllers) do not follow this natural law of humanity. They will not feel obligation if you contribute to them.

When you call a narcissist/psychopath out for doing something deceitful, exploitative manipulative, cruel, or harmful… They will always spin it so you are the problem. This happens in relationships, families, workplaces, religion. Same tactic, any context! They do it well too.

Narcissists/psychopaths have a deep understanding of their victim’s vulnerabilities. They actively trigger their victims in front of others to make them appear mentally unstable. The victims are healthy, able human beings being abused. The triggering is the tip of the iceberg.

I saw this on another SM platform. It is incorrect. Narcissists/psychopaths sabotage birthdays, holidays, vacations, celebrations, accomplishments because they are sadistic. They enjoy disadvantaging, compromising & harming others & controlling others’ emotions.

It’s impossible for people to understand how sadistic narcissists/psychopaths are unless they have being targeted by one. The sadism is often not physical. It may be subtle, emotional, social, psychological, reputational. It may involve, for example : - hiding a person’s pet so

Narcissists/psychopaths (human predators) are at the forefront of educating about their type. I’d say around 50% of current high profile educators are human predators, deftly misleading & exploiting as they pretend to be victims themselves, researchers or altruistic predators.

Those targeted by a narcissist/psychopath (human predator) are usually advised to pursue ‘grey rock’, which means limited or no contact with the abuser. This is good advice, however it is not always possible. Sometimes abusive people keep themselves in YOUR life. Human

Classic signs of a psychopath/narcissist (human predator): 1. Triangulation: they play off other people against you. This could be in a work setting, a romantic context, with your children etc. It may be covert or overt. It may destabilise others’ relationships with you, or have

Narcissists/psychopaths (human predators) have what I refer to as: “Unrelenting attention to personal purpose”! They just keep pushing & pushing & pushing until they get what they want. They go way beyond when most people would stop. It could be subtle & slow or very obvious.

To victims of narcissists, psychopaths, coercive controllers (human predators), please: 1. Own the beauty of your kind and loving nature. 2. Treat all new people with healthy reservation. 3. When you go to share personal information, take a breath first, then decide if you still

Have you heard of Munchhausen’s by proxy? It’s where someone secretly, purposely causes illness/injury in another person. It is often a parent doing this to a child. For example, a parent clandestinely poisoning their own child. It is a form of abuse. Medical/psychological

What is the full arsenal of weaponry of the narcissist, psychopath (human predator)? What are the tactics the human predator users to destroy others and avoid accountability? There are 25 of them according to my research and they are all used with precision and power and far

Dark personalities (narcissists, psychopaths) do not experience emotions due to prefrontal cortex & amygdala brain anomalies so they act out emotional responses. They don’t always get it right though. Behaviours you might see in a dark personality include: - Wiping away tears

Sending love today to those born to a narcissist/psychopath. ❤️ To be the scapegoat child of a dark personality is to endure an unimaginable childhood of torture. This often includes: - Frequent sadistic physical abuse. - Unreasonable expectations and punishment if

It’s frustrating & disheartening trying to warn others about a narcissist/psychopath where you have experienced so many red flags but they say “They seem OK to me. I can’t see it.” That’s because the dark personality didn’t want them to see it! People don’t get this.

One of the most shocking points to emerge from my PhD data is that upwards of 10% of the population are malignant narcissists/psychopaths (human predators). We just don’t know how to ‘see’ them! They torture their targets with no accountability, destroying anyone who may expose

One of the most well-used weapons of a narcissist/psychopath/coercive controller is that of isolation of their target. It is the cruelest form of non-physical torture. The dark personality works hard to ensure the target loses connection and support from all key people in