Trauma did not make you stronger. Trauma literally altered your brain so you can no longer process new information. It made it so you can't trust people as well as yourself. It made it so you're constantly on edge and dysregulated. Trauma can change your entire being.
this homophobic kid in my class got called a good boy by his friend who’s also a guy and he started getting super flustered and red and covered his face
Most able bodied people aren’t afraid of becoming disabled because they believe the system will support them. That doctors will work night and day to figure out what’s wrong when they’ll most likely tell you it’s just anxiety.