I honestly believe this is one of the biggest mysteries there is, Orcas are the most efficient predators on earth, yet they have never attacked us in the wild. They know something we don’t.
Stay away from people who always consider you expressing how you feel as you arguing or being extra. it's called gaslighting. Toxic people do that so they don't have to take accountability for their own behavior.
I've never had a problem admitting when I'm wrong. What I won't accept is someone making me feel like I was the only problem. Things are never one-sided, and I'm not going to waste my time arguing about it
I actually do not mind being the villain in your story because in mine you lack boundaries, integrity, healthy communication skills and the emotional maturity to take accountability.
my therapist told me learn to calm your own storm instead of venting to other people it sounds therapeutic to let it all out, but you're reinforcing your negative thoughts. it's no one's job but yours to pull you out of your own problems. journal, meditate, exercise and release.